Are you still out there?? Any sign of you??

Realtionships have always been complicated and always will be. Everyone of us knows that finding the right guy is like fishing in the deepest ocean. You date someone, have a blast with him, enjoy every second and then he never calls you. Or you are so convinced that THIS TIME he is the right one, the one who fits perfectly to you and in the end things turn out to be creepy or weird. There is just something that does not fit in the profile of that perfect guy anymore. You jump from date to date from one guy to another always hoping to find that special one or how many people say "soulmate". Anyways, if we talk about soulmates we should face the fact, that there is more than one. With more than billion of people living on this earth, face it there is not only one guy, who suits to you. Some of us might have experienced it: Being in love with two guys...Maybe they are both your soulmates and then of course how can you decide? Either you have none or then two at the same time. You already start being frustrated, the next date is about to take place and you already think about what weirdo am I seeing this time? So you go to the cafe or bar or whatever place, where you are supposed to meet him and then you ask him how he is living, by himself or with roommates. He tells you without any blinking of an eyelash that he is engaged and wants to be honest from the beginning. Thank you very much! And again a failure! What is happening in our world nowadays, guys are basically thinking that relationships are "out" assuming that you date them because you can`t wait to start something with a married or engaged guy or another girls boyfriend? Amazing how many benefits we have from todays fast changing world, but this is nothing we ever wished for! Yes, we wanted emancipation and yes, we think it´s fair that women can have high positions just like men do. But....NO, we still want a  man who appreciates us, who sees the only one in us, who is giving us what we need and values every second of the time he can spend with us. It might sound cheesy or like a fairytale! But in the end that is what we wish for! The guy on a gray horse picking us up and taking us to his castle! Yes, symbolically this is what we are looking for deep inside, because times might have changed, but not the fact for gods sake that we are women, who still want to be loved, like it was centuries ago. One-night-stands seem to be on the agenda of every second guy in a club and flings are the "future relationships" for many of them and there might be a time when we can enjoy some relationships without any engagement, but how is it possible that we always end up in these meaningless & bizar dates where the guy even asks us about our favorite sex position on the first date? So girls the question is, is there by any chance this one special person in between all these machos? Lets be optimistic about it, hope always dies last, right? No, seriously...Do we know how it used to be in the past, where couples stuck together for better or for worse, or in many cases probably for "the worst"?  The time of our grandparents probably was not that much different, it was just not common or fashionable or even accepted to break up, but humans tend to get used to the other one and take things for granted, so of course only because they stayed together it does not mean that they found their soulmate. Isn`t it more cruel to be with someone, although you wish you could break up? Or is it actually worse that guys just put it out there: "I just want Sex tonight, come with me or leave it!" Nowadays we have the choice. We are in a relationship with someone for many years and then well, it was not the right one..NEXT! Maybe it is just different, nor worse neither better. At least we have more freedom in deciding with whom we want to spend our life with! And yes, there is someone out there for all of us, we should see life like a journey, us as actors, if it didnt work out with one guy the last time, then his chapter in our book ís just closed. It might take some time to get over all this frustrating dates, where we always have to talk about the same stuff over and over again: "What do you do for living? ", "How do you spend your freetime?"... This might be a hard path, but once HE shows up, it will all make up for it. For sure! And at least, if he sticks to us we can assume that he really is into us and not because it is not in fashion to break up.....